Wednesday, July 18, 2007

The Silent Speech



There are sources of books,and thousands of learned papers,on the Body Language - or the non-verbal communication as the specialists prefer to call it.I came to know about this peculiar matter by the Book "The Secret Language of Success" by Dr.David Lewis (psychotherapist).
The vast information can be explained faster but there need to be concentrated more on Body Language for the effectiveness of the speech. We should know how to use it !
As with any skill we cannot become proficient in body talk merely by reading a book about it.Practice is essential to make your Silent speech eloquent.Just like learning to speak an unfamiliar spoken language you'll probably be slightly hesitant and awkward at first.But after a short while this new way of using your body will become smooth and effortless.

Silent speech is important.It significantly affects your chances of succeeding or failing in any social encounter,whether personal or professional.Research suggest that only some 7% of the meaning in any conversation is contained in the Words spoken .I feel the majority of information is communicated by means of complicated mixture of appearance,posture,gesture,gaze,and expression.

In an increasingly fast-paced and competitive world silent speech skills can prove the key to social and professional attainment.We can control the messages being sent while accurately interpreting the signals being received.This ability to read another's body talk accurately is especially important in situations where you suspect attempts to conceal stress,mask anxiety,disguise deception...

So,when it comes to Success and or Failure what you say often matters far less than how its is said.
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